ooohh,its' rainbow fish!! ;x

lovelorn boy

放下，放手是对心爱的人所能够表现出你爱她的最高境界，这不是丢脸之事，是洒脱，是爱!

would like to encourage my dear fren, do not be sad, if dat gal dun like u, or she seems to dislike u, be sure to think abt smthing happy. *

If u think: u two shld be together and the reason for ur reactions towards her is caused by ur wild imaginations only. Then i suggest, do not pressure her, no gals like boyfriends who keep on asking them out or make strange requests. Wad i feel is dat since u two knew each other for only a relatively short time and are still considered new friends (my POV), so there is no reason for u to be so anxious. Moreover there are many chances of going out during ur JC life and dun think that just because u two may everntually land in different classes means that she will become some other boy's gf. That is crap, who noes wad she thinks abt u (think on the gd side)... Gif ur good & best shot at it, do it slowly =) If u rush things, it wouldn't help and she will just feel threatened and pissed everytime u speak to her (i am sure u dun wan dat). As we discussed abt her before, i think i understand y this and dat happened between u and her so erm relax? Ya, relax is the word, dun try to force time to move faster as it will not do any good to u at all.

If u think: 管她屁事, do die. I suggest u change target because once u start scolding her like this, it means u do not haf love for her anymore and wad dominates ur mind is lust (in any form). That is not wad love for someone means. Moreover ending it here means there is still chance to be gd frens in JC. I seriously think that gals will play an important role in our JC lives thus having one gal who hates u means that 10+ more will hate u too. Will dat be gd to u?

What do u think then? Decide and take action? Get off the status of being a lovelorn boy.

*hmm, i failed more times than what most of my frens noe i failed. I was totally pwned before, got cheated several times, tried to get someone already with a bf (whom till now havn said the truth), and i agree that many of the times i am at fault so as the chinese saying goes, 一份耕耘，一份收获 i had expected such things to happen and thats y i was never sad over these failures. BGF at our age is seriously too early but if u wan try, y not, just rmber to put it as a secondary issue. Hope u can understand i am trying to help u and not telling wad and wad to do. Off course u can scold me for posting this but afterall i am saying this as a fren =) I agree that sometimes gals are hard to understand but that doesn't make it impossible to find love in return. Whatever ur decision is, I believe u can do it!

A sorrow no one can understand nor share..